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Our greatest strengths are our greatest weaknesses

 

There are certain personality characteristics that are highly correlated with professional success:

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People who have these traits are generally excellent students and productive workers.

They can also be difficult to live with.

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Think about it ! Those who demand much of themselves have high standards for those around them.

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In a work situation, this is usually an adaptive approach. In one’s personal life,

Do not wear as well and tend to alienate those who value closeness, relaxation, and tolerance.

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A certain amount of separation is necessary to succeed in the different areas of our lives. Juggling our multiple responsibilities – worker, partner, parent, friend – is a challenge. We think of ourselves as the same person whatever we may be doing at the moment. But our different roles demand different attitudes.

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Paradoxes

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If we try to impose a businesslike decision-making structure on our families. Then we are likely to encounter resentment and resistance.

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Conversely, if our style tends to be impulsive, superficial, and pleasure-seeking. Then we may find it difficult to succeed at work.

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Such a list of paradoxes is endless.

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A favorite.

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The final one …

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Therefore, our ability to experience pleasure requires

Either a healthy denial Or a courageous acceptance of our situation

 

Next time you beat up yourself over a weakness. Remember – It is also your strength !

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Excerpt From: Gordon Livingston.

“Too Soon Old, Too Late Smart”